I'll be there for you :)

“A strong friendship doesn’t need a daily conversation or being together.

As long as the relationship lives in the heart,

True friends never part.” – Unknown

You might think why this girl is writing about something so common, about something we already know everything about. The real reason why I’m writing this is, because lately I’ve come to realize the true importance of this beautiful bond. Don’t get me wrong, I have wonderful friends, so many of them that I cannot even count. Friends are said to be the gems of our lives and I whole heartedly agree. We all have friends, but today I want you to think about who is your true friend? Who is that one person you can go to when things get hard? When things start falling apart? That one person who you know would never judge you, who would never give up on you no matter what the situation?

Does a person cross your mind? If yes, then this person is your best friend. Everyone needs someone, no matter how much they try to deny it. We all need someone who would understand us, someone who we could talk to about all our problems, about all the things that are breaking us inside. In short, we all need a best friend.

Your best friend can be anyone, they can be one of your parents, your better half, your sibling, your cousin or as in most of our cases, a classmate or a colleague. It’s honestly very hard to find that person, but the day you do, never let them go…because you will realize the importance of them after you’ve lost them.

A best friend is someone with whom we can talk for hours and hours to, someone with whom we can share our deepest and darkest secrets without the fear of being judged, someone who understands us, someone who listens to us, someone we can be crazy with…a best friend is a person with whom we can be ourselves with!

A best friend can be someone with whom you’ve known since childhood but can also be someone that you’ve just met, and similar to “love at first sight,” you just click with. Time period doesn’t decide the genuineness of a friendship. It’s the heart, the trust that connects two individuals. 

You don’t have to talk every day to someone to be someone’s best friend. Yes! Friendship doesn’t require every day conversations, if you guys can catch up exactly where you left off, then you know that this person is someone who is permanent in your life. Even if you both have stopped having regular conversations, in your hearts you both know that the other is there for you if you will ever need them and they are just a call away.

“I’ll be there for you” this title is one of my favourite songs about friendship, this song is also the title track of the infamous TV series F.R.I.E.N.D.S. The reason I used this title is because this line in simple and short defines what friendship is all about. Because your best friend is someone who’ll always be there for you.

As they say,
“A best friend isn’t someone who is just always there for you.

It’s someone who understands you a bit more than you understand yourself”

-Unknown